I want it so bad

Think about something that you truly desire in life. It may be a material object such as a new home, a new job, or a relationship. Or it may be an intangible such as love, a sense of peace, or joy. When you approach this desire from a state of longing, your focus is on its absence from your life. You are sending a message that this is where you are placing your energy and the Universe responds accordingly. You receive more of the same. Then you wonder why your desires go unanswered even though they aren't. That is why we state our intentions and desires in the present tense as if they are already here. The fact is that it already IS here. The perfect mate is already walking on the planet, your house already exists, and your dream job is waiting for you to apply. When you spend your energy thinking of any of these as future events, they will always remain in a vague future. Imagine their presence in your life today and the feelings that accompany them. Then release the how to the Universe to deliver. What are you longing for today that is creating that absence and how can you turn that around for it to manifest?